In this post I want to share more about Pierre Frankh's interesting experience in his book "Successful Wishing".
If you haven't seen my review part 1 of his book, here is the link below,
http://miho-entwistle.blogspot.com/2013/04/my-favorite-ways-of-law-of-attraction_16.html
It was from one of the stories in his book , and the title is
" In the furthest depths of despair, his tough life experience ",
" A long time ago, there was a time when I reached the bottom of my life experience , like it couldn't be worse than that.
I had a girlfriend and we had been living together for 5 years, and suddenly she fell in love with another guy and left me.
She started living with her new boyfriend, and my heart was terribly broken hearted, it felt like in the furthest depths of unhappiness.
I felt choked up with emotion, could not eat, and got insomnia from the hurt of losing her love.
My feeling became out of control from the broken heart, cried, went wild, and became desperate.
My work was as an actor, and I was famous in Germany, so this news got on air everywhere in the media, and I was called as an ignorant nasty guy who tried to block her new love relationships and was called as a down-dog.
I got large amount of criticisms , everything was exposed me to public view.
I was mentally attacked and knocked out from it until almost dead.
One week later, I was handed a book which has the prayer below,
" Dear God,
Give me the courage to be able to change things I can change.
For things I can't change, please give me calm to be able to accept the things I can not change.
and give me wisdom that I can sort between the things I can change and can not change. "
When I read this prayer accidentally, I felt that this doesn't help my situation.
In the next day, while I was still in absent mind, I read it again.
After 10 days past from this nightmare situation, I was completely exhausted , and I had no power to fight or stick to things anymore.
My girlfriend was hoping to break up with me and start living with her new boyfriend, so there was nothing I could change.
When I was completely knocked out, I gave up everything.
After all , I lost everything completely.
Then, when I casually started reading the prayer, suddenly a new fresh life bud was coming up.
and I started feeling vividly, and started enjoying dancing, singing and cooking.
Even though I was in the bottom of unhappiness in my life, I somehow felt happy.
I started feeling so delighted and my eyes started tearing.
This situation continued about 1 year.
It felt like I was filled by deep happiness which I've never experienced .
It felt like I was connected with absolute existence.
By receiving the support from it, this absolute existence, I felt true happiness from the bottom of my heart.
All the things I was sticking to disappeared, and I could accept everything.
Later, my girlfriend came back to me.
Probably she might have felt I had a renewed strength from within.
However, my feeling was never the same as before when we were together.
But I showed my concern to her with respect and forgave her.
I learned to admit my mistakes. and through all this experience, I learned to love myself and care for my every action and attitude .
Soon the media caught about my girlfriend came back to me and asked me to tell how and why it happened, and to tell my experience with details .
Also they asked me about bringing back my acting career fame.
But for me, it didn't matter, it was not so important any more.
Because I was already filled with happiness and satisfied with it.
I was already careless for the public image, what people think about me.
My logical reason would never agree with that.
But I followed my soul, my feelings.
Since then, by listening to my soul ( feeling ), my life started going well.
I was not sure the reason why I felt like that, but long time later, I found out it's because I didn't " worry" about anything happening in my life.
Since I released the feeling of "fear", all the burden of my heart had gone.
and I got freedom, joy of life which is not being restrained by anything.
I felt I was supported.
There was nothing I felt I wanted to control something , or try to get things unnaturally.
I became unwilling to try to change something which I can not.
It's waste of my energy.
and I could put all my energy in a positive way.
I learned that most of the things had been judged by my logical reason.
This was my experience.
Because, in the beginning when one starts to follow one's feelings, it seems to feel negative, but most of the times, it's navigating to the best result.
Even if I missed a train, or got rejection for my writing, or got rejection from my girlfriend, in the next step, there is always something waiting for me, and navigating to a wonderful miracle world.
At the end, it's always happiness is waiting for me.
Since then, I always knew, it's a journey and all the negative things which makes sad experience are just a passing road to get to the Happiness World.
and after this relationship experience, I got freedom again .
and then the next thing that happened is I met my soul mate girlfriend, partner.
It's the biggest happiness of all my life. "
My review
I translated from a Japanese book which was translated from German, so the words I'm using may not be accurate but I think the meaning is something like that.
I'm very impressed with his wonderful experience of true happiness from within.
Probably I've never experienced that kind of feeling which I can feel like connecting to absolute existence in life.
The closest feeling I had so far may be when I first time took flower essence combinations called Abund and Travel, I felt really happy without reason.
and I noticed that I don't get " fear " type feelings like I used to have anymore since I started taking these flower essences.
Reading affirmations many times daily may also help to connect to the absolute existence.
I thought this story may be interesting for people who are having tough time right now such as lost love, divorce, etc...
Interesting part is when he gave up everything , when he was completely at his lowest point, and then started reading the prayer affirmation again, it happened.
I think this is the point when we release the things we were sticking with, it happens.
Actually I remember that when I lost something, and desperately looking for the thing , it didn't happen, but once I almost gave up to find it, and started thinking new things, suddenly the thing I was looking for came up .
I experienced this kind of similar situation many times.
So releasing things we are sticking to can open the door to enter a miracle world.
Another thing is when we don't have " fear " feeling , things go well, even though in the beginning, it may not seem the right way , but at the end it's just a path, a road to get to the best result.
We are supported by absolute existence.