Thursday, June 13, 2013

Gratitude and Complaint



You know what ?

Recently I really feel everything is a miracle.




Everyone is a miracle.

I got married with someone who is from different country is a miracle.

I’m speaking another language is a miracle. 

My body, I have power to walk, run, move, talk, can see, these are all miracles.

I can breathe air is a miracle.

I was born in the world is a miracle.


And while I was feeling like everything is a miracle, I started to feel so grateful for everything.

Now, the opposite meaning of Gratitude is Complaint.

And in Japanese  writing,  using Kanji,

The meaning of complaint which is used in Kanji is 

“ Stupid,  idiot “ 

  or 

“ ridiculous idiot “  .


I feel the person who created Japanese Kanji words was knowing some secret. 

These kanji words were made long long time ago , but people are careless for the meaning of it, and complaints are everywhere.

Since I realized this,  

complaint = stupid idiot

I stopped complaining.  

And when I wish to change or fix  something, I will replace with a “ request “ but not with a “ complaint" .  


Normally,when we feel full of gratitude, there is no space for complaint. 

So, I will also gratitude instead.

The meaning of Gratitude in Japanese Kanji word is  

“ Feeling blessed “

   or 

“Feeling salute” ,

or 

“ Feeling thanks”,

or

“ Feeling apology “. 


I really feel the quote below is true.  

~ “ Whoever has gratitude, will be given more,  and he or she will have an abundance. “ ~

And I feel the reverse is also true, that  if one does not have gratitude then whatever one has will decrease. 


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Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Blood types and Personalities



Today, I would like to talk about blood types and personalities.




Recently I came across this article in the link below,

“ Japan and blood types - Does it determine personality?

When I was in Japan, I often saw people were asking and talking about each other ’s blood types and then talking about their personalities based on it,  more than by horoscope.

In the USA, no one seems to care about one’s blood type and I’ve never been asked about my blood type since I came here.

I thought it’s only Japan, but according to my husband who lived in Taiwan for three years during his 20’s, he was often asked about his blood type there as well.

Like the article stated, there are many books about personalities based on blood types, and in one’s profile information, there is often a section for your blood type. 

This kind of topic may sound, 

“ so what ? “   

 “ who cares . “  


While there are people who enjoy talking about personalities based on blood types, there are also many people who don’t like to be judged for their personalities by their blood types. 

When someone started talking about blood types, I was also one of them who joined to talk about it for fun because I’m always interested in people’s personalities ,   because everyone has different personality.

And I often thought personalities are not that simple, it can not be sorted by only 4 types.

Mostly, people describe like the following article mentions, 

According to popular belief in Japan, type As are sensitive perfectionists and good team players, but over-anxious. Type Os are curious and generous but stubborn. ABs are artistic but mysterious and unpredictable, and type Bs are cheerful but eccentric, individualistic and selfish.
About 40% of the Japanese population is type A and 30% are type O, whilst only 20% are type B, with AB accounting for the remaining 10%.  “ 


But I think these descriptions can be for all the people as well.   

While I do agree with blood types are nothing to do with one’s personality, somehow, I did also notice there are some common personalities in blood types. 

And I also noticed that whatever you describe yourself as you wish to be  , you become that person.


Because,  there is a funny story about one of my friends. When I first time met her, she said her blood type is AB  ( with Taurus in horoscope ), and describing about the AB blood types personality.

So I was feeling like AB blood type is like her personality.

Then much later, she figured out when she went to the hospital, and the doctor checked her blood type, she was told her blood type is A !  lol

When I was in Japan, I had been taking dance class and my dancing teacher was talking an interesting thing about blood type.

She was saying she can know her student’s blood type seeing their dance.
And I was interested so I asked her what about my blood type ?

And she told me  “ You must be  “A” blood type " .

At that time, I was not sure what my blood type is because I had never checked it.

My mother's blood type was RH+ AB,  and my dad was RH+ B.

I’ve read about that in this combimation,  their kids will be
 +AB  +  +B =   +AB, or  +B, or  +A 

So I thought I maybe B or AB  which are called unusual blood types in Japan since there are only 10% for AB blood types  and  only 20% for B blood types in Japan.

And much later when I checked it, the doctor told me I’m “ RH + A “ !!!


My dancing teacher was right.  

But wonder what kind of dance style is considered “ A ” blood type ? 

My dancing teacher said she and her daughter who is a dance instructor  are both “ A” blood type.

What I remember is the best student in the dance studio was “AB” blood type.  And I loved her style of dancing. 

My dancing teacher didn’t explain with theory , but from her inspirations she said my dancing is blood type A’s dance.  

 Somehow, when I first time met my husband, I felt he must be “ O “ blood type , just from my inspiration.

In the USA,  my impression is so far most people I’ve ever met was O blood type.

So it can not be judged by only blood type, since all my husband’s family and relatives are “O “ type.  


But variety personalities.


and yes, my husband is " RH +O ". 


In my family,  

My mother also was not sure for her blood type, so did my grandmother because they had never checked it until their late ages.

My mom was  saying she may be  RH+O, because all her brothers and sisters are RH+O.

So I thought she was O.  and when her illness got serious in her late years, the doctor checked her blood type and told me, she is RH+AB.

So I was surprised , and said “ Really ? “ so the doctor looked surprised to see my strange reaction.

And my grandmother was  RH+ A.  and my grandfather was RH+B.
This combination can have all type of blood types. 


So all  my other relatives are “ +O” blood types except my mother who was +AB.

My step father was also RH + AB blood type.  

So mostly I grew up with AB blood types.

Also my friends were often AB blood types. 

I don’t know why. 

So I didn’t feel AB blood type is such a low percentage.  
  
And once in a while I was reading about combination of one’s horoscope sign and blood types for personality types.    

For horoscope, there are many signs in one’s birth date, but I check mainly, sun sign and moon sign which are the strongest to appear in one’s personality. 

Also, family position , oldest kids or middle kid or youngest kid, or having sister
 or brother ?    

Also I thought parent’s blood types also influences kid’s personality because kids are growing up seeing their parents.

I love reading personalty types, but mostly I feel that blood types are not so accurate. 

It looks to me that much more accurate are Asian horoscopes or oracles and western astrology. 

I think it’s okay to talk about blood types just for fun , and just not to be too serious and  judge too much or use in unfavorable ways.

Because I’ve seen some people who judge by blood type, like “ I’m not match with “ AB”.   So I can’t be your girlfriend/ boyfriend. “ or something like that.

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Thursday, May 23, 2013

Easy world - Best Dentist in Tucson, AZ



I had a great experience at the dentist office of Dr. Jay Citrin yesterday !




I had a problem with one of my teeth , the metal crown came off from a tooth on the left side, lower part, three days ago.

Before it happened, I also needed a filling for my other tooth as well, but I didn’t fix it for months because when I went to another dentist which is one in the list for our previous dental insurance, they started doing not what I wanted, and checked X-ray for all my teeth and made a plan for more office visits, without actually doing anything, and not even cleaning my teeth.  

They did the same for my husband’s teeth.

We felt like they are too much business marketing so, we didn’t go there since then.

Then I was looking for the best dentist in Tucson, AZ,  and found  Dr.Jay Citrin who is receiving 5 stars reviews from many people.  

But we didn’t have time to go right away as things got busy since then and my teeth were okay for a while so I forgot about it and didn’t go to the dentist until recently. 

So Monday morning I made an appointment to Dr. Jay Citrin’s dentist for Wednesday.

I had two teeth which has problem and wanted to get immediate fix.

Guess what ?

He fixed both  of them perfectly yesterday, a root canal and cavity filling, within 1 and a half hour, and already finished it !!!  

Sooooooo fast !!

Dr. Citrin  is really considering what his patient want .   

He is direct and to the point and polite and this is always my favorite thing for everything.

Also the price was more inexpensive than other dentists.

My image of the dentists are that it usually takes 1 month to fix one tooth, especially for root canal, at least all the dentists I’ve ever been before were like that. 

That tooth which has metal crown was fixed when I was in Japan.   
Before I came to the USA, I wanted to fix all my teeth, so I did.  

But that dentist was quite young, maybe inexperienced, and seems like he did not do good job for it. 

This is why maybe I felt pain with the teeth sometimes even though outside looked perfect, covered with metal crown.

Anyways, Wednesday I didn’t get any pain feeling while the dentist was doing my root canal and even the dentist made an injection for numbing before he started doing root canal’s work, I didn’t feel anything.

He is really professional best dentist I’ve ever been.  An injection shot is usually pain, right ?  

No pain !  

Everything went easy , and actually we were singing, like a mantra, an affirmation  

 “ easy world ,easy world ,we are living easy world, easy world easy world , we are living easy world, where everything is easy !  it’s wonderful ! It’s awesome ! ”    
 on the way to the dentist.

I highly recommend Dr. Jay Citrin dentist for people who live in Tucson.

Very nice person as well, feel comfortable to talk and didn’t give me any pressure.

Thank you, thank you, thank you to Dr. Jay Citrin and also to the dental assistant lady who helped me !

And thank you for the easy world affirmation. 

This affirmation works amazing every time I say this , the most recently, I lost my ID, driver’s license and permanent resident card, but I could find them since we sang them.  

 It’s was really amazing. 

( I found the information about “ easy world “ in the link below,
http://www.powerfulintentions.org/group/easyworld  by Julia Rogers Hamrick and also Bashar also said the similar things, about effortless world.